The Hidden Connections in Our Everyday Lives

Parveen Khurana
3 min readJul 28, 2024

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A couple of weeks ago, I was getting ready to attend a social function. As I reached for a shirt from my wardrobe, I felt a wave of satisfaction. I’m the kind of person who takes pride in well-ironed clothes, and this shirt was perfectly pressed. This simple act of picking out a neatly ironed shirt sparked a deeper reflection on the intricate web of connections and processes that brought it to me.

All my shirts are ironed by a man known as Ravi. He picks up the washed clothes, takes them to his shop, irons them, and delivers them back. I’ve visited his shop a few times and noticed that he used to operate an old-fashioned press running on coal. This memory triggered a cascade of thoughts about the journey of that coal.

Consider this: the coal Ravi uses most likely comes from regions like Jharkhand or Tamil Nadu in India, or perhaps, in a surprising twist, from the Ruhr Valley in Germany. Regardless of its origin, the formation of that coal began around 225 million years ago. The sheer magnitude of this timeline is mind-boggling. A process that started millions of years ago eventually led to the formation and transportation of coal, which in turn allowed a person named Ravi to iron my shirt. It feels as though the universe meticulously planned these events so that I could enjoy a neatly ironed shirt today.

This realization instills a sense of gratitude and perspective. It’s astonishing to think about the countless processes and connections that seamlessly align to create our present moments. This shirt is just one example, but the truth is, our lives are filled with such connections.

Take water, for instance. In the northern parts of India, most states rely on major rivers like the Ganga or Yamuna, along with their tributaries, for their water supply. We depend on this water for our survival, yet none of us created the glaciers that are the perennial sources of this vital resource. These glaciers, formed over millennia, provide us with the water we need to live our lives.

Think about the device you’re using to read this article. The materials in your phone or computer come from all over the world. The metals are mined from the earth, sometimes in distant and remote locations. The technology has been developed over decades, with contributions from scientists and engineers across many countries. The software you’re using is the result of countless hours of coding and innovation. Each piece of technology is a culmination of numerous efforts and resources, intricately woven together over time.

Everything around us, every resource we depend on, has been arranged and set in place long before we arrived. Our role is to make the best use of these resources and appreciate the profound connections that bring them to us. These reflections remind us to cherish the seemingly mundane aspects of our lives and recognize the extraordinary processes that make them possible.

In every moment, we are surrounded by the results of ancient processes and intricate connections. Recognizing and appreciating these connections can transform our perspective, filling us with gratitude for the countless elements that come together to support our existence. So, the next time you pick up a neatly ironed shirt, take a sip of water, or use your smartphone, take a moment to reflect on the incredible journey that brought these things into your life.

By acknowledging and appreciating the vast web of connections that make up our lives, we can foster a deeper sense of gratitude and a more profound appreciation for the world around us.

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